Today I start a series of discussions about challenges in business, leadership, and life balance.
Its purpose is to help more people who are in a difficult situation to emerge from it and develop their businesses and life with more joy, love, and happiness.
I chose to start with CONFIDENCE because it is crucial for our success in each of these directions. And because I know from my experience with clients and my personal process, when we are in a difficult situation that we want to change, usually in this period our confidence is shaken. And we need to bring it back in order to move forward.
We have periods of confidence and periods of lack of confidence. It is very natural. We can lose it even though we know that we have a lot of knowledge and experience. Often we lose our confidence when we want to grow but our environment does not support us. We can lose it even if our environment encourages us to proceed with our heart wishes. We also lose it when we don’t know what to do, or which direction to go. But most of the time it is related to the inner calling that pushes us to grow.
The problem is that growth requires confidence and it requires raising your confidence to the next level. So, it is not that you lack confidence. It is about that growth in business and life requires growth in our confidence. And it is inner work.
Sometimes affirmations help in this process. Other times they don’t. Why? Because we cannot delude our subconscious mind. If it does not believe in us or if the environment makes us doubt, in order to bring our confidence to the proper level, we need to work on our beliefs, feelings, and our emotional state. Yes, there is a direct connection between them. And we are going to explore it during the next 4 days.
Today we start with some questions in order to help you get some clarity about your challenges regarding your confidence if you have such.
First I invite you to choose a particular area to explore during these 4 days. It could be business, leadership, or life balance. And even more, chose a particular topic to work on. Helping questions:
- What do you want to achieve regarding your business, leadership, or life balance that feels difficult for you? What is your desire or the difficult situation that you want to overcome?
Are you ready? If, yes, ask yourself the following questions:
- Am I confident enough to talk about my desires, about what I want to achieve with my business partners, my managers, or my life partner?
If yes, great! You can go and grow easily.
If not, ask yourself:
- What is the problem with my confidence?
We can divide confidence into three main areas:
- Confidence in your knowledge and skills.
- Confidence in your preparation and arguments.
- Confidence in yourself as a person.
These are 3 different things. So, think and feel in regards to your topic:
- Do you have confidence in your skills and knowledge?
- Are you well prepared?
If yes, this can help you move forward toward what you want to achieve. If not, you need to start doing something to bring your skills, knowledge, and preparation to the next level.
- Do you have confidence in yourself, besides the skills, knowledge, and preparation you have?
If yes, great! If not, you need to work on it.
Confidence in ourselves is a deeper thing. It is on the energetic level and it requires inner work. As a coach, I help people grow their inner confidence at the proper level with ease.
If you got clarity about what are the problems with your confidence, it is the first step toward solving them.
If you would like, you can share your awareness below.
Hope these questions were useful for you.
Tomorrow we are going to dive deeper into this topic. We are going to talk about the unconscious beliefs that sabotage our confidence, hence our growth in business, leadership, and life.
Stay with me to learn more.
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